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Is life tougher for men than most women today?

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Both the sexes have it hard, no one's life is easy or no one is free of problems, but the issues that men face are often not discussed or spoken about. The whole idea of "being a man" is vague and ancient. When norms are changing so rapidly for women, we still have the same ideas when it comes to a man. I feel that in this whole act of feminism, the struggle of guys is not being talked about. Men are still expected to do all the work, be the bread earner for the family, run errands, impress women, and not complain about any of it. They are expected not to project their emotions and always conceal them. Toxic masculinity stops them from turning up to a male friend, therapy, or parents for any kind of emotional support. Forcing them to become  "emotional gold diggers" , looking for all the emotional support and intimacy from a woman.They have to deal with rejection throughout their lives. Though safety is majorly considered an issue for women, men too are prone

Why should you be single?

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Been jealous of your friends' blooming relationship? I have been there until I realised that you never actually need   a partner because common we are already just good enough chilling out with our friends and working on our goals. Though I can list   thousands of reasons to support my view. Here are just a few of them.  I am not a relationship nazi but relationships are taxing,to cater to someone's emotional or physical needs is tough. Life is already challenging, you don't want to be carrying someone else's baggage. People are unreliable, dishonest, disloyal and the list goes on plus anything may happen to anyone at any point in their life. Why take a risk, when it is not even worth it. A single-life brings you a lot of opportunities to explore yourself. You have more time and a clearer headspace. It gives you freedom,makes you headstrong and independent. I have seen people feeling suffocated due to there "obsessive" partners.Talking about "to