Why should you be single?

-


Been jealous of your friends' blooming relationship? I have been there until I realised that you never actually need  a partner because common we are already just good enough chilling out with our friends and working on our goals. Though I can list  thousands of reasons to support my view. Here are just a few of them. 

 I am not a relationship nazi but relationships are taxing,to cater to someone's emotional or physical needs is tough.Life is already challenging, you don't want to be carrying someone else's baggage.

 People are unreliable, dishonest, disloyal and the list goes on plus anything may happen to anyone at any point in their life. Why take
a risk, when it is not even worth it.

 A single-life brings you a lot of opportunities to explore yourself. You have more time and a clearer headspace. It gives you freedom,makes you headstrong and independent.

 I have seen people feeling suffocated due to there "obsessive" partners.Talking about "toxic boyfriends"(or girlfriends).

 Falling in love is way too romanticised, reality, however, is very different. 

 It is a great idea to be loving and caring. After all, life is all about spreading love but you don't have to be in a relationship for
that. No one can love you as much as your parents do.Love yourself and maybe don't hurt your own or anyone else's feelings.  

 I have a lot to say on this.
See you in the comment section below. 

Comments

  1. Aditya viswabhusan28 January 2020 at 10:51

    Well, buddy thanks for encouraging but i m already single ....which i won't be regretting after this😅☺️

    ReplyDelete
  2. Abhishek Gupta28 January 2020 at 10:55

    Being in a healthy and supportive relationship can actually have a big boost on your happiness level, according to several studies. Being in love has a big effect on your oxytocin level, which promotes bonding and comfort. This is why you love being around your partner, and why just being near them can boost your mood.
    Having a supportive boyfriend/girlfriend is not only inspiring. It encourages you to pursue your passion or goals no matter how hard it goes. If you have a partner who believes in you, then you become more confident of what you can do—and the desire to impress him/her serves as a fuel to push harder too.Being with a person who comes from a different background and has a different personality from you will really challenge your patience. It is normal to have misunderstandings in a relationship, but if both of you are willing to work things out, soon you will learn to control your temper and stretch your patience and understanding towards each other.One of the practical benefits of being in a relationship is having someone who looks after your well-being—aside from your mother. There is someone to check if you have eaten already or you are safe home late at night. Also, whenever you are sick, someone would make sure you have taken your medicines and cook you your favorite meals.And as u wrote about toxic relationships but in my view of thinking relationships can be toxic with anyone you just need to understand the situations and tackle accordingly.To be honest,in February i will complete my one year of relationship and I won’t say that we haven’t seen ups and downs because believe me we had. We had a fight,we had every sort of things to hurt each other but moreover we knew that we love each other more than anything in this world.And I would personally say there is only one life you have got so love with a open heart because its the most beautiful thing that can ever happen to a person.

    ReplyDelete
  3. RITIK28 January 2020 at 12:54

    "Why should you be Single!!" .... Well the problem here is not being single or in a relationship... The problem is how you accept it.... There are guys who are surrounded by people but they are individuals still in a need of a person with whom they can share their feelings... N there r fellows who have one guy around but trust factor between them tends to infinity.

    Studies shows people traveling with their mates around showcases better grade on enjoyment level, exploration quality and energy level way above par.
    As far as dishonesty, disloyalty etc etc....is concerned the point is that it's the way of life... It's how life goes... One will meet various individuals with even worse qualities, so it's upon us how we counter them, rather this is the phase where ur decision making quality gets improved so instead of cursing just change your way of viewing things.
    "It's like u urself putting a rod in-between your cycle, falling and hurting urself and blaming the spokes... Funny isn't it! "
    Relationship depends mainly on trust... It's something you enjoy and not something you are pushed into. Disloyal, dishonest are words that makes huge impact n if you are not willing to shower the same trust then it makes no sense to expect the same trust.
    If someone invests their 100% for someone whom they really care about then the return is sure and that too in exponential form and if that does not happen then just accept the fact that he/she not the one!
    If someone really cares about someone then their happiness does not lay in having them as a partner but in seeing them happy! N if that's not happening in someone's case then my friend you are still lacking in giving ur 100%

    ReplyDelete
  4. ayush mittal28 January 2020 at 21:48

    SATYA VACHAN

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Your crush vs your guy.

-
Image
1. Your crush is probably one of those people who can make you feel the most uncomfortable. He can make your head spin, make you feel weak in your knees, and get you to blush when you don't want to. While your love interest is someone you are the most comfortable around. 2. Even if your crush is a total loser, that won't harm you but an awful lover can stink your life. You can end up placing your crush on a pedestal even though he is an idiot. You would glorify all of his credentials and overlook all his ineptness. 3. A friendly gesture from your crush can leave you awestruck but even though your guy goes miles for you, he can still fail to win you. (the heart wants what it wants). 4. Your love interest seems to be a net flix subscription to you but your crush looks like a membership to the clubhouse. As in the Netflix subscription, you can get easily compared to the inaccessible membership to the clubhouse. 5. Your crush has a very short shelf life, on the other hand, your l
Read more

Are you bored?

-
Image
A lot of people were acutely bored during the lockdown and it persists. The pandemic has seized most of our routine activities. Personally, whenever I have felt bore for long, it always leads up to frustration, demotivation, and anger. Hence, that is the last way I want to feel.  It is urgent to understand and eliminate such emotions.   Every emotion that we feel is trying to communicate something to us. Lack of work does increase our chances of feeling bored. But that isn't the only cause. Lack of quality of work that we do is the leading cause of such an emotion. We shall analyze the kind of work we are doing in our field. Quality of work is most important to feel content. Someone who has no objective can never feel content or motivated. It is crucial to have at least one passion and strive in that particular field. If not so, we will always be bored, and lose the idea of time. There are countless opportunities in this digital world. Hence, it is foolish to complain about not hav
Read more

Why so obsessed with beauty?

-
Image
Why are we so obsessed with our appearances. Does this dimension of our life deserve all that botheration? The race to look the best is doing more harm to women than body hair. This is not to praise the twinkle in our eyes or the glory in our smile, but to make a point that our obsession with beauty is mad-crazy. The way I look at it someone's attractive looks do no good to you. The present beauty standards are undermining, distracting, and destructive. It affects women more, on average women own 40 cosmetics. As long as you are not aspiring to be eye candy or to join show-biz, there is no need to freak so much about your looks. Can we just stop talking about who wore what at the party? Can we breathe and let people be. It is high time that we admire each other for confidence, sass, talent. Let us complement each other on what we do rather than how we look. We have had enough of airport looks, the gym looks, the event looks, behind scene looks, and many more, paparazzi never seems
Read more